I don’t need to
hide my identity anymore, as my church members and others are already aware of
this development. I am based in the United Kingdom and a member of the Redeemed
Christian Church of God here in the UK. I am a 24-year-old Nigerian girl. I
have lived in the UK for over five years, running into my 6th year already.
However, as it is generally held, “life is not always smooth and straight” I
understand that life, most of the time is full of ‘zig and zag’ just like it’s
characterized with ups and downs. My story is not different after all. I have
had my good times too, and I consider this time as my most trying moment.
I am writing this
note, not exactly because I regret my action of taking full control of a married
Pastor, but because I have sensed something that is really not going to work
for me in the most positive way, if I keep this pregnancy. I don’t regret my
action because I understand that pastors too are human beings, and have the
same feelings like the rest of us. He slept with me, got me impregnated; so
what?