Forget
having hundreds of friends on Facebook, we need just five trusted people in our
lives, researchers say. To cope with modern life we want an agony aunt, an
emotional support, someone good with money, a practically minded person and a
colleague we can ask for work advice.
The
research shows a minimum of five friends and colleagues are now required to
share out our problems and get useful advice from. Top of the list is an agony
aunt figure we can tell our problems to, followed by a loved one who will put
an arm around us and provide emotional support.
The
third most in demand is someone to help us out with financial matters and
advise us how to save money. And fourth is a knowledgeable friend or family
member we can turn to for advice on life’s practical matters.
The
fifth most important is a colleague we can look to for help and advice in the
workplace, according to the study by Nationwide Building Society. However, the
research reveals that despite the average Facebook user having 190 friends, 32
per cent of Brits still don’t feel they really have anyone on their side.
Men
are twice as likely to feel they have no one to turn to (42 per cent) in their
daily lives as women (23 per cent). And perhaps giving the lie to the notion
those in the north are friendlier, people (73 per cent) in the South East of
England feel more supported than any other region.
Sadly,
it seems that age diminishes our support network with Brits over the age of 55
feeling they have fewer trusted friends (40 per cent) than any other age group.
The research shows our main needs are for someone to listen to our problems (23
per cent), to provide emotional support (18 per cent) and to ease the pressures
of everyday life (18 per cent).