WARNING!
This
article contains stories that most ‘church people’ don’t want to
address. So, if you are one of those living in denial and covering up crap
going on in the church, this is where you should stop reading. Thanks for
stopping by.
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Now,
for the rest of us, please sit down and switch on your open mind. I want to
talk about something I have kept bottled up inside for longer than necessary. I
have also decided to use real names, as my defense for any accusation of slander
is justification. I tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but.
However, feel free to throw your doubt around but know that I am past the
shaming game (where victims of abuse are shot down by blame) I am no longer a
victim but a survivor who is sharing her experience to help others caught in
same web of abuse, guilt and shame. We only get to live once right? So here, it
goes…
I
recently came to know this event too was abuse (recently here means about 6
months ago). It has literally been eating me up having to drive by another
billboard advertising preachers, or hearing his name, or even trying to ask
about the validity of the entire salvation story and whether or not there is a
God that truly watches over his people. That being said, I’m just going to say
it as it is. This is a recap of my affair with Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo of COZA
(Common Wealth Of Zion Assembly) Abuja chapter. This affair I have come to know
as a form of abuse as you would see the different elements of abuse very
present.