Few
days ago, fans of actress Mide Martins raised an eyebrow after her husband,
Afeez Martins took to his Instagram page to wish her happy birthday on April
12th but she refused to send the same gesture on his own birthday which was on
April 13th. Many said she was separated and that her marriage was had hit the
rock. Now she has taken to her Instagram to clear the air on her relationship
with her husband and father of her daughters.
Read the lengthy post after the
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Life Is a Mystery!!!.... We live in a
world where so many strange things happen that are beyond human
comprehension... First of all I want correct this impression of me moving out
of my husband's house, I did not leave my house nor pack out of his house, On
the contrary, he was the one that left me and moved out of the house!!.... And
this happened like 3months ago when we had a minor argument over the well being
of his children... And he packed out of the house abandoning me and 5 children
at home; His 2kids, Our 2cousins that has been leaving with us for the past
10yrs now and the househelp...
Anyone who is close to the house or our family
can testify to it that I am still in the house that we have lived together for
4yrs now, he was the one that moved out and rented another apartment two weeks
after... Presently as we speak, he's now leaving in his new house, neglected
his wife, kids & responsibilities since...I tried to resolve this issue by
informing some of our close relatives but all to no avail... I guess his mind
was strongly made up and must have his reasons for wanting to be a free man...
Naturally couples do have issues between each which are meant to be resolved
between them amicably not taking such a drastic measure like moving out of the
house, a man for that matter!!!....
Definitely he must have been planning to do
so before was just looking for an excuse!!! A responsible man would never
abandon his family no matter the circumstances!!!.... So I kept mute all this
while and tried to move on with my life, going about my daily business ,
working my head up day and night for the survival of these children.... If you
check through the years back, I never for once talked about my husband badly
... I always give him praises and appreciate him anywhere and everywhere
necessary... Is he God? Is he Angel? Or Is he that perfect?... Ofcourse
No!!.... He has hurt me so many times before Infact has broken me countless
time before but never for once said anything cruel about him but instead tried
to play along with maturity... Because I don't ever want to tarnish his image,
I love my husband and cherish him more than any one can imagine!!!
People usually judge people by their
appearances which shouldn't be so..we shouldn't judge people from afar!!.. An
innocent looking person might be a devil underneath while an arrogant/ flashy
person might just be an angel to the core!!... So many people abused, cursed,
judged, criticized and even condemned me for not uploading his picture on his
birthday .. How can I celebrate a man that has abandoned me and his kids for
over 3 months now without looking back and made it clear he wasn't ready to get
back to me!!...If actually did that who would I be fooling? Myself? Him? Or the
Audience?... All that you see on his page.. @officialafeezowo on my birthday
uploading my pictures and saying some nice things was just a camouflage!!
Deception!!... He wrote there that am his angel.. "Can you leave your
angel to starve to death?"....if you check through his page very well he
hasn't uploaded my picture there for a while before this very day of my
birthday simply because he left me a long time ago... All he does is fool the
world by uploading his children pictures which has been on him phone for long
and now pretending to be the best dad in the world. Whereas he hasn't heard
from these children or care about their well being in a long while now... I
don't like really to upload my children on net too much because I believe
children are meant to be protected by keeping them well and save inside not
exposing them to the world every time like they are some kind of items you
wanna sell. That's why I don't put them on Net too much except on very
important occasion. That doesn't mean I don't love them. I adore them!!...
Infact they are my life!!!
Now!!... My husband why are trying to
destroy me? Why do you wanna kill me? What will be your achievement? Why do you
wish destroy my career.. This is the career that gives me money to feed the
children that came out from your flesh and blood... Why do I deserve this kind
of hatred from you?... Is this what I get for having stayed by your side and
supported you for good 13yrs?... Well no problem!!!..All will be well... But I
leave everything into God's hands to judge between you and I ... I know he will
surely fight my battle for me because " Oba Elesan ni, Adakedajo,
arinurode, Olumoran okan, olugbeja eda"... Now Am crying out unto you from
the deepest pain of my heart!!.. "Gbogbo Eyin Abiamo Aye"....Pls save
me!! Pls save this poor innocent woman who's done nothing wrong but has always
worked extra hard just to support and keep her family together ... Pls I beg
you all in the of God to save me from this. Trauma that am experiencing now...
May God be with everyone... Thank You!!!
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